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Kids Style + Giveaway: Babiators > The BEST Kids Sunglasses in NZ

Kids Style + Giveaway: Babiators > The BEST Kids Sunglasses in NZ

I’m one of those people that wear sunglasses 365 days a year.  I NEVER drive without them, I never hang the washing out without wearing a pair, I run in them…….I simply love sunglasses. And I want my kids to love sunglasses too.  The benefits 

Shop smart | Getting Kids Tech Ready for School + Giveaway

Shop smart | Getting Kids Tech Ready for School + Giveaway

BYOD (Bring Your Own Device) is hitting our house in 2016 as Ethan heads off to Intermediate. Paying for this is probably a worry that I share with many kiwi families but don’t sweat it as I’m about to share with you my little Gem 

Halloween 2015 | #thescarehouse

Halloween 2015 | #thescarehouse

Top Mummy Blog new Zealand Top Halloween DecorIt’s about this time every year that Ye Ole debate starts, you know, the one that starts with this gem; “ugh, I HATE Halloween, it’s so American humpfff”.

Yeah well, I pooh-pooh those haters and say BRING ON HALLOWEEN! 

Here are my Top 5 reasons for getting down with Halloween;

  1. Wearing costumes is fun and kids LOVE it!  Dressing up in a pumpkin suit never hurt anyone right?
  2. I’m all for a fun/one-off day each year that breaks up the monotony of the daily grind – be realistic, Halloween impacts at most, 6 hours of your year – why not enjoy it?
  3. Halloween is great for meeting your neighbours!  Many communities now plan amazing (and easy to organise) events that respect everyone’s decision to either be involved or abstain.
  4. Lollies are awesome!
  5. Decorating (see below) is super fun, inexpensive if you’re a savvy shopper and use what you have already, plus, Halloween is a great excuse for a party!

Halloween Decorating

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I love decorating my mantlepiece every opportunity I get so I decided to up the anti and take #thescarehouse to a whole new level this year!  Before I began I went room-to-room collecting anything that fit my ‘brief’ – basically black, black and creepy.  I grabbed a print and coat hanger from Nixie’s room, some swallows off the wall (the orange paint was perfect!) some black and white pottery, a framed owl print, a calendar (turned to the 31st – All Hallows Eve :::::::whoooooo::::::) and a black clock.  Random and easy.

I then mixed these up with some inexpensive Halloween decor essentials from The Warehouse;

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Skull Goblet Bone Colour $10, Hanging Small Skeleton $10, Skull Mug Bone Colour $10, Spooky Spiders $3, Spider Web with Spider $1, Skull with Moving Jaw $10, Skull Bone Bowl $10Dummy Gauze Cloth $10, Rubber Spiders – Check the toy department, Rubber Snakes – Check Toy Department.
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If you don’t have a mantlepiece, get creative with a themed centrepiece and get ghoulishly ready for a creepy dinner party – Halloween is on a Saturday this year!  FYI, one of the $1 bags of cobwebs covered all four dining chairs! Top Mummy Blog new Zealand Top Halloween DecorTop Mummy Blog new Zealand Top Halloween DecorTop Mummy Blog new Zealand Top Halloween Decor Top Mummy Blog new Zealand Top Halloween Decor

And, it wouldn’t be Halloween without costumes would it?  Finding age appropriate costumes for littles is a bit tricky here in New Zealand, definitely easier if you have a little girl I think? Yes?  Princesses and fairy wings and all that?
Needless to say I was beyond excited to find this super-cute Pumpkin Costume for Nix also at The Warehouse, it’s comfy, not too hot and he can move easily in it – winning………….so far!  We’ll see how our Neighbourhood Fright Night works out lol.

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So, I’ve got my decorations, costumes and Halloween treats all sorted, early too I might add!  If you’re keen to get spooky with The Warehouse this Halloween, you can shop the range online or visit your local store, and I’ve got a little helping hand to make Halloween even more fun!

(CLOSED)  Congratulations Rhiannon Young!

If you would like to win a $50 gift card from The Warehouse just let me know in the comments below; Halloween: YAY or NAY?

Contest closes 26/10/15 at 10pm.

Our Cloth Nappy Journey + Giveaway

Our Cloth Nappy Journey + Giveaway

You know, there is one phrase I like to remind myself of when I’m in need of a little giggle, for those (frequent!) scenarios when I don’t get this mummy-thing going as smoothly as one would hope; “God loves a trier”.   I tried cloth diapering, I 

Beauty 101 | Primer & Blur Products

Beauty 101 | Primer & Blur Products

So ladies, primer.   Do you or don’t you?  Do you every day?  Should you?  What the heck is it and why do you need it in your life?   Got it.  Welcome to the beginners guide to primer and blur products, from the Beginner 

Knowledge vs the Great Pink Fear + Giveaway!

Knowledge vs the Great Pink Fear + Giveaway!

Top Mummy Blog new ZealandWhen I was thinking about this post, I realised that I really needed to find out what you guys think and feel about breast cancer.  I asked you on my FB page and those are your words up there.  It’s sobering how scared breast cancer makes ALL of us.

I know cancer.  Believe me.  

My Dad died from Melanoma and I was there by his side with my Mum and family for the entire 9 months from diagnosis until his passing.  Dave and Ethan and I had moved into my parents house, so when I say I was THERE, I mean, really there and really present.

Like Melanoma, I find breast cancer so scary because it feels to me like there is a weight on my shoulders, an obligation to do what I can to be vigilant as I’m not yet eligible for free mammograms (these are for women 45+).  I must be responsible in the sun, I must not let my kids burn, I must initiate good breast checking habits because right now I don’t have any.  And that’s not going to save my life.

The unknown is scary.  Not knowing what is normal and what’s not, not knowing who to call, when to make an appointment, how to ask for help.

I don’t know how to give myself a breast exam and the truth is, I don’t know why I’ve failed to learn.  I’m a smart woman who only takes calculated, well-rehearsed (at least in my head!) risks.  But in this instance, ignorance  and keeping my head in the sand is the risk.

So I’ve asked myself these questions, but I also want you to consider them and ask your mother, your sister, your daughter, your best friend, your aunt these very same questions;

  1. When was the last time I checked myself?  Hmm, might start doing this monthly after my period, that should help me remember.
  2. How do I check myself?  It’s as easy as Touch.  Look.  Check.  Watch this short clip here  www.anychanges.co.nz
  3. Is it time to start mammograms?  If 40 or over, yes, annually.
  4. I’ve noticed a breast change lately – when can I make an appointment to get it checked out?.  
  5. Did I miss my last mammogram?  Better book one.

Breast cancer is the most common cancer in New Zealand women, affecting 3000 women every year.  8 women per day.  That’s a massive statistic.  These days, however, it’s highly treatable if diagnosed early.

October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and The New Zealand Breast Cancer Foundation have compiled a wealth of resources to help us as women navigate this lifelong commitment to breast health awareness.  Early detection is something we must all own personally and take responsibility for.

Here are Six of the Best Breast Tips to get you on track this October

  1. Check your breasts often – this includes young women in their 20’s.   It’s not always a lump – changes to the breast skin, shape, size and nipple can be a sign of breast cancer too.  Look at www.anychanges.co.nz
  2. Get any changes checked out by your GP  – they should refer you on for testing.
  3. Start having regular mammograms once you turn 40. Mammograms save lives – they can find cancer early before you feel it
  4. Enrol for free mammograms once you turn 45 with BreastScreen Aotearoa on 0800270200. We’re so lucky to have a free screening program, which we owe to previous generations of women who died of the disease.
  5. Don’t get complacent because your mum’s never had breast cancer.  Most women with breast cancer have NO family history of the disease – so it comes as a complete shock; the upshot is that all women are at risk.
  6. Go easy on the alcohol to reduce your risk as it’s a carcinogen. Regular exercise is also a protective factor.

What can you do to help?Top Mummy Blog new Zealand

  • Text ‘PINK’ to 4644  to donate $3 to October’s Pink Ribbon Appeal and The New Zealand Breast Cancer Foundation

  • Register now for the October’s pinkest walk in Christchurch – The Estée Lauder Companies Pink Star Walk and raise money to support The New Zealand Breast Cancer Foundation.

G I V E A W A Y

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Our Holiday in Rarotonga | Whale Watching with Rongohiva Watersports

Our Holiday in Rarotonga | Whale Watching with Rongohiva Watersports

Our last ‘organised’ excursion in Rarotonga was also the one that I had been looking forward to the most. We had the amazingly good fortune of booking our trip during prime whale watching season – I cannot impress upon you how excited I was when 

Acquisitions | A Gift for Dave

Acquisitions | A Gift for Dave

Dave is the most giving-ist giver I’ve ever met in my life. The man loves giving presents (I really enjoy this aspect of our relationship!!), but never asks for anything or expects gifts…..ever. Which makes him super hard to buy for as he’s just so damn 

Book review | Circling the Sun by Paula McLain

Book review | Circling the Sun by Paula McLain

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Oh this book.

This beautiful, amazing, I-missed-it-when-I-was-done book.

As you can see, I took Circling the Sun to Rarotonga on our holiday and it was the perfect vay-cay read.  I haven’t read The Paris Wife but it’s been on my to-read list forever and has definitely jumped a few places up the list after finishing McLain’s latest offering.

Another true story, Circling the Sun takes us deep into Kenya and into the unforgettable life of Beryl Markham.  The daughter of colonial Brits, Beryl took to life in Kenya with an open heart and mind – despite the closed attitudes that permeated every aspect of life in the 1920’s.  

The characterisation of Beryl paints a flamboyant image of someone I’d love to be friends with.  Passion, drive, ambition in spades and with an unwavering belief in herself, Beryl enjoyed massive success as a horse trainer – the first female to do so – but was unable to find lasting love that she could truly call her own.  Society despaired of her seeming inability to ‘settle’ down and ‘behave’, to find a man she was willing to devote as much energy to as she did her career.  Failed marriages and ‘inappropriate’ relationships, often tragic, were her legacy but she never failed to be true to herself.

You can feel Kenya and the angst of this tumultuous time as you make your way through this stunning book.  I fell in love with Beryl, as I’m sure everyone did who met her.  As she learnt to fly – the bravest undertaking of her life after she lost her lover in a plane crash, it became clear that there are some women, for whom the world holds no boundaries.  How intoxicating would that be?  But also very lonely I imagine.  

Circling The Sun is a phenomenal memoir of the time and of a women of extraordinary character.  It’s hard to finish a book like this and not take a slightly critical gaze over one’s life and wonder how much more could we/should we be doing to really fulfil our true potential? 

I’m rating this one a must read, perfect summer holiday book 10/10.

 

We love | Washbar Natural Skin and Coat Care…….for Dogs!

We love | Washbar Natural Skin and Coat Care…….for Dogs!

Congrats Eanna Geoghegan!  Please email me melissa (at) thebestnest.co.nz with your delivery address xx Obviously ‘Natural’ skin, haircare and beauty ranges are hugely popular for men, women and kids and are becoming more and more mainstream and budget friendly.  This is awesome for us but the